Dear friend Mellissa,
Some day back I was just wondering that it has been quite some time that we have spend quality time together, and then you letter arrived. I was sorry to hear that you marriage has been on rocks for some time. There are many such situations in life when, knowingly or unknowingly, we make the wrong choice of fortune for us. Today, there are alternatives available where people get the opportunity to mend their choices and get a better alternative for the current choice.
You have mentioned that both have you tried to stabilise the things in respective way; but that didn’t work out as well. The point is that Mellissa, in a marriage there is nothing like respective ways. The only thing existing is the ‘our way’. And since the things have not come to a comprehensive consequence, I recommend you should opt for the legal way to sort out.